My first time seeing this in the back room!

We went to our local swing club this weekend and had just found a spot in the back to play. As I was moving onto the mattress I turned to see the couple next to us, who were already playing. He was on his back and she looked like she was giving him a blow job. I noticed the man next to them was on top of his wife but his hand was between the other guy's legs. At first I thought nothing of it but then I was confused so i turned back to check. Sure enough he was giving the guy a hand job and the wife was not doing anything but watching from up close. I have nothing against it but it was the first time I ever saw this in the club. The weren't trying to hide it which also surprised me. I have often wondered why it is accepted for women to play together but not men. Any thoughts? I always wonder how one guy would even approach another. Only one time a guy tried to touch my significant other and we were shocked; it's totally not ok with him.

I'm also kinda surprised that this taboo remains in the otherwise open-minded lifestyle community. I have seen bi-guy activity out in the open exactly one time, in the Sin Room at Desire.

While it's understood that bi activity between guys is not going to be everybody's cup of tea, I don't see why it must be kept on the QT, hidden away. After all, bi woman activity is not everybody's preference, either, but straight people don't seem to have any hangups trusting that an identified bi female is capable of playing straight if everybody wants that.

I even find it interesting that people don't want to touch this topic. I aagree with you MD79. It's not my cup or tea either but it is a hangup for people. I find that interesting.

oooohhh...tough one.

Most clubs are pretty specific about guy on guy contact being a no-no. It's their rules so you break them at your peril. I guess they just cater to what the clientel wants?

That being said, all Bi parties and clubs are a blast, maybe you should seek them out?